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"Buddha Babies"

Language of a Love Bug


by Danielle Rutledge






Ring around the rosie

Pocket full of posie

Ashes ashes we all fall down


Did you know this is a song is debatably about polio?

Little Miss Muffett is a nursery rhyme about a little girl who is frightened by a spider.

Peter Peter Pumpkin Eater had a wife and couldn’t keep her so put her in a pumpkin shell and there he kept her very well.

Humpty Dumpty was unfixable.

Duck, duck, GOOSE!  I love duck and geese, really I do, but I would rather be called a unicorn, bunny, kitty, doggy or something fuzzy, friendly and fun.

These are the nursery rhymes I grew up learning.  Do they feel sad and depressing to you?  Do they make you think happy thoughts?  No?  Me either.  I was taught these in school and we sang them daily.  Did they contribute to me obtaining and believing in limiting and negative thoughts?  I believe it’s very possible.  I believe that all of the little things that fed my imagination also created my inner and outer reality.

Yes, they are just a nursery rhyme.  But are they really just that?  They are words and thoughts that occupy our time and if we can encourage children to look for the love even in a nursery rhyme than we’ve set a stepping stone for them to choose love in the bigger picture.

When choosing books, songs, rhymes, stories and such to share with your children be aware of what it is going to encourage your child to think.  If "Ring Around the Rosie," isn’t about polio than what is it about?  Do I feel like it encourages my child to think happy thoughts?  Well it doesn’t hurt because they don’t know.   They are perfectly content running in a circle screaming at the top of their lungs no matter the verbiage.  However, I personally feel that whether there is truth to this urban legend or not I would rather the children sing something else.  I would rather them sing something to uplift their mood and that will encourage them to think more lovingly and positively even if it is subconsciously through a rhyme or song.    We can choose love as our language in the smallest of ways.




Love Bug

I am a Love Bug, yes I am

Grab my little Love Bug hand.

Circle, circle here we go

Skip, hop, jump, go with the flow.

I’m a happy, healthy, funny, silly Love Bug.

Let’s stop real quick for a Love Bug hug.

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Reference: Ring Around the Rosie:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ring_around_the_rosey

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Danielle, in her own words: I am a young woman seeking out ways to help and heal my life.  I am releasing my fears and worries to enlighten and lift my being in order to better myself, my children and the world around me.  I am learning to be responsible for my energy and my contribution.  I live in tiny town in the middle of Illinois on 2 beautiful sandy lakes surrounded by family.  I have 14 beautiful healthy nieces and nephews and 2 amazingly bright children that help me to live life on the silly side.  Children are so pure and free to be.  They inspire me to let loose and live optimistically. Danielle writes the column "Buddha Babies."

 


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05/02/2012 2:27pm

Hi Danielle, so interesting, I never knew this history about Ring Around the Rosie, although certainly I knew many classic fairy tales have very horrific source material - in times past, fear was often considered the best teacher for children it seems. And it is amazing how quickly children react to the energy of something - something light, bright and full of love will shift their mood immediately.

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05/03/2012 4:56pm

Danielle,
I salute the position you have taken here to be sure that we choose positive input for our little ones. They are so impressionable and we never know what careless song, story or phrase can cause difficulties in the future. I recall that my parents (and they were amazingly wonderful parents) took us to a drive-in movie when I was quite young. It was a double feature. I am sure the first film was quite family oriented and fine. (I have no memories of it) But I remember waking up to see a new film, "The Bridge on the River Kwai" and being somewhat traumatized by a particular scene. I never forgot it; it portrayed such cruelty.

Yes, let's provide our babes with good food for the mind, spirit and heart too. xo

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Kaveri
05/07/2012 12:03pm

Danielle, I feel like I'm sharing this space with a pioneer, you know, the kind we honor in history books. Danielle Rutledge, mindful mother, brave woman, author of a new age of nursery rhymes and children's poems about true happiness, kindness, and love. Thank you for being you and writing what your inner child needs to heal, thereby healing children everywhere.

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Danielle Atherton-Rutledge
05/07/2012 7:00pm

Thank you, ladies for always so being so kind and encouraging! It encourages me more than you know :) Love and light to you all! :)

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